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terrified about scan on tuesday
Hi everyone, those of u that don't know I have a 5 year old daughter and after her we decided to try for another... Took us a year to get preg then lost it when I was 15 weeks (was devastated) then decided to try again after a while got preg after about another year of trying then lost that one at 14 weeks then we tried again and it took about another yr to get preg again and lost that one virtually as soon as I found out I was pregnant. Anyway here I am now pregnant again I'm 12 weeks today and have a scan on Tuesday I am absoloutely terrified of what they may say I've been having terrible dreams and all sorts keep thinking they are going to tell me I lost it weeks ago
I hate feeling like this and can't stop worrying. Plus side is been put on clexane and some vitamins an haven't bled once during this pregnancy its just a horrible feeling I have. Has anyone else been in this situation? Could really do with some support about now
1 DD born Oct 07 8lb 5 oz***** 3 Miscarriages at 15, 14 and 5 weeks****1 DS born july 13 8lb 9oz***1DD born Aug 14 7lb 11oz!
Hi, Hun
I am sorry for your previous losses and suspect that your feelings of dread are based on that history. Other than your little girl, you have not had good news at this point (give or take a few weeks) in pregnancy. I think I would probably feel the same in your position. Not having been there myself, I am afraid that I cannot offer much in the way of support but I do hope that your scan will have a positive outcome...
Huge Hugs
PCOS, hypothyroid - on thyroxine, aspirin and Met
Lap/Ovarian Drilling Oct 2005
DIUI X5 + 2 abandoned cycles (total 7 cycles)
22 March 2006 - Connor Born 24 November 2006 - unplanned c-section
At 3 and a half C finally gave up the boob!
Hi Rene thanks for replying I know I think once I get to about 5 months I would probably relax a little but the closer and closer I'm getting to those stages where I lost the others I'm getting worse with worry which can't be good for the baby in itself x
1 DD born Oct 07 8lb 5 oz***** 3 Miscarriages at 15, 14 and 5 weeks****1 DS born july 13 8lb 9oz***1DD born Aug 14 7lb 11oz!
Hi there, Im so sorry for your losses and what your feeling is completly normal. I was told at my 6 week scan id lost my lo and had similar feelings when I managed to get pregnant again. Im sorry I cant offer any words of wisdom but just wanted to wish you luck for tuesday xx
Lily born 30/04/12
6 weeks early via c section
MY DIARY
I did have an early scan at 6 weeks and saw a heartbeat but that seems like a lifetime ago and I can't stop worrying its driving me mad! Thank u all for the words of support x
1 DD born Oct 07 8lb 5 oz***** 3 Miscarriages at 15, 14 and 5 weeks****1 DS born july 13 8lb 9oz***1DD born Aug 14 7lb 11oz!
Hi Westmidsgirl, I will have everything crossed for you on Tuesday. I don't think the worry ever goes away, especially when you've been through so much.
Wishing you all the best xxx
BFP Jan 2008: M/C at 13 weeks
BFP April 2009: Fantastic Finlay born 3/1/2010 xx
BFP May 2011: Beautiful Brodie born asleep 2/1/2012 xx
BFP June 2012: M/C at 5 weeks
BFP Oct 2012: Cuddly Kira born 6/6/2013 xx
My diary: Sunshine, Stars and Rainbows
Hey moogle. I know! Its just horrible! If only we all had a magic wand ay! And thank u. Will let u all know how I got on X
1 DD born Oct 07 8lb 5 oz***** 3 Miscarriages at 15, 14 and 5 weeks****1 DS born july 13 8lb 9oz***1DD born Aug 14 7lb 11oz!
I don't think the worry ever goes away, especially when you've been through so much.
I think Moogle has hit the nail on the head.
I've got everything crossed for you too. Good luck.
xxx
1 DD born Oct 07 8lb 5 oz***** 3 Miscarriages at 15, 14 and 5 weeks****1 DS born july 13 8lb 9oz***1DD born Aug 14 7lb 11oz!
Well people thay said all is ok baby looks good. Cervical length was 46mm which they said is good? And going back in 4 weeks to have it measured again x
1 DD born Oct 07 8lb 5 oz***** 3 Miscarriages at 15, 14 and 5 weeks****1 DS born july 13 8lb 9oz***1DD born Aug 14 7lb 11oz!
Thats great news, well done xx
Lily born 30/04/12
6 weeks early via c section
MY DIARY
Thank u! Releived but still nervous! Need to get past 14 an 15 weeks now! X
1 DD born Oct 07 8lb 5 oz***** 3 Miscarriages at 15, 14 and 5 weeks****1 DS born july 13 8lb 9oz***1DD born Aug 14 7lb 11oz!
Lovely news, I'm so pleased for you! I know you still have some important milestones to pass yet, but getting to 12 weeks is really positive. Great you're in for another scan in 4 weeks too!
Take care xxxx
BFP Jan 2008: M/C at 13 weeks
BFP April 2009: Fantastic Finlay born 3/1/2010 xx
BFP May 2011: Beautiful Brodie born asleep 2/1/2012 xx
BFP June 2012: M/C at 5 weeks
BFP Oct 2012: Cuddly Kira born 6/6/2013 xx
My diary: Sunshine, Stars and Rainbows
I'm so pleased for you.
I hope it eases your worries for now and roll on 4 weeks time.
xxx
Hey thanks for all the positive words... Starting to get a bit excited now will be more so once I have passed those milestones though! X
1 DD born Oct 07 8lb 5 oz***** 3 Miscarriages at 15, 14 and 5 weeks****1 DS born july 13 8lb 9oz***1DD born Aug 14 7lb 11oz!
1 DD born Oct 07 8lb 5 oz***** 3 Miscarriages at 15, 14 and 5 weeks****1 DS born july 13 8lb 9oz***1DD born Aug 14 7lb 11oz!
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