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Saturday, June 9th 2012, 7:59am

So so worried !

I'm not sure if anyone remembers me from last year........I found out on my first scan there was no heartbeat. It took so much to get through but with help from everyone here I made it :sniff:
I have recently got my :BFP: and was over the moon. I felt the implantation this time and actually got the brown blood spotting with it. I actually was feeling so pregnant. Then last couple days I don't feel so pregnant. Nausea stopped, boobs not as sore! I just don't feel it! :tear: I know that pain and bleeding are the typical signs of mc but I didn't get that
Last year either! My whole mind is now clouded with worry,I cant sleep or concentrate and am becoming snappy with DH.......this is so hard :tear:
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Saturday, June 9th 2012, 8:14am

HI kittenlove,
I know the feeling, but try not to stress. It's a difficult time between now and your first scan, but try to stay strong.
The nausea and all the other pregnancy symptoms normally are felt later on, like at about 9 weeks. 'Normal' people don't feel anything. Also symptoms like sore boobs come and go, they don't stay the same. Try not to worry. I know it's easier said than done.
If you feel something is wrong contact the clinic and see if they can do an earlier scan and some blood tests to reassure you.
Take care.

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Saturday, June 9th 2012, 8:17am

Hi Maria.....I am having a scan end of next week as I work in a hospital and know the nurse in EPU. Its going to be a long week! I want the scan but I also don't :tear:
I know what your saying is true but my mind is going crazy. [zx050] For your message :xxx3:
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Saturday, June 9th 2012, 8:31am

Oh hon, this beginning bit is such a worrying time, and obviously so much worse because of what you went through last year. As Maria said, symptoms really do come and go, my boobs were sore on and off for weeksand were never constant. It is great that you are having a scan next week, are you able to have a blood test on Monday perhaps to put your mind at rest? Everything will be fine in there honey. Keep busy this weekend, have you got much planned? Xxxxxxx



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Saturday, June 9th 2012, 8:42am

End of next week is not too far. I know it will feel like a long week. Try and keep very busy. Book yourself a nice treatment, like manicure or reflexology.
As Dusk says, can't you not have a blood test on Monday and the repeats on the Wednesday? I'll be nerve-wracking what ever you do. Cos you want to know that it'll be ok, but you don't want to know cos you're scared.
Try and stay calm x

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Saturday, June 9th 2012, 8:59am

Hi kittenlove, I know exactly how you feel. I had a scan where no heartbeat was found and I was devestated. I was then lucky enough to get another bfp after several other rounds of tx. I then spent the whole of my pregnancy worrying and thinking it wouldnt last, but it did. What im trying to say is try not to compare this pregnancy to the last one, symptoms do come and go so dont panic (easier said than done [zx127] ) As the others have said, keep yourself busy, stay strong and keep calm xxx
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Saturday, June 9th 2012, 9:22am

Symptoms really do come and go and of course some people never get any symptoms at all!!! Stay strong and think positive. xxx


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Saturday, June 9th 2012, 10:06am

You are all right I know and thank you for trying to make me feel more positive :hugs:
I guess I will just have to muddle along till next week and face what ever the scan brings!
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Saturday, June 9th 2012, 7:17pm

Hi kittenlove, firstly congratulations on being preggers! Having experienced 3 consecutive miscarrages i know only to well how tough those first 3 months are when all you can do is wait and worry! Like the other girls have said the best thing you can do is keep busy and spoil yourself to make the time pass as quickly as possible. I also requested and paid privatly for additional early scans when i was pregnant with jayden, think i had one every week pretty much tokeep me sane and then at 9 weeks i brought a dopler which helped loads as i used it every day it was great.
Im sure your little one is just fine, its only natural to worry after loosing a baby, but you will get thru it x

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Saturday, June 9th 2012, 7:51pm

Lisa Lou....thank you for you lovely words :thanx: Really helps to hear from people that know my situation well. We are all going through some kind of worry or other,I know I'm not alone and what ever fate brings me it helps to know I have my fertility zone friends to help grouphug :xxx:
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Sunday, June 10th 2012, 11:20am

I feel the same I have a week and a half till my first scan. My worries are I feel anxious and worrying that worry will mean it will all go wrong. I think when it's taken 6 yrs to get a BFP I want to enjoy it.

I get odd tummy ache but I am stressing and snapping at DH and he hasn't quite learnt to just leave me be so i spend most of my time taking 5 to chill lol. Just want everything to be ok :thumbsup:

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Sunday, June 10th 2012, 2:33pm

Phoebe I don't think we can chill out :tear: This is something we can't help! We will worry what ever anyone says. Good thing is......here......we are not alone grouphug :xxx3:
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Monday, June 11th 2012, 11:35am

Stay strong hun and keep positive. Xxx

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Monday, June 11th 2012, 12:01pm

:thanx: poppy :xxx:
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Monday, June 11th 2012, 5:17pm

I'm having it Thursday and I won't lie.....iv never been more scared :sniff:
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Monday, June 11th 2012, 5:53pm

Try not be scared. Worrying is not going to help. Try to get distracted if you can.
Take care

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Monday, June 11th 2012, 6:05pm

I work full time so will be busy at work......good advice Maria :yes: Keeping busy is good . I work in the hospital that I'm having my scan thursday so depending on result may be difficult :sniff: I'm surround by pregnant women everyday :xxx3:
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Monday, June 11th 2012, 6:06pm

I'm sure it seems like a long way away but it's nearly just the day after tomorrow really Xxxxx



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Monday, June 11th 2012, 6:47pm

Good way of looking at it Dusky :thanx: DH is scared too,he said in a way not knowing anythings wrong like last year is a good feeling right now so having the scan and facing our fate is too scary :tear: .......
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