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Friday, August 26th 2011, 8:47am

:goodluck: for today kittenlove :) x
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Friday, August 26th 2011, 10:09am

Hi ladies, thank you for your kind replies. :thanx:

I hope everyone is doing ok blowkiss

Kittenlove I wanted to wish you all the best for today! Finally your day is here! :goodluck:

AFM Im still the same, spotting cramping and panicking... :sniff: I so much hope that I am one of those (lucky) ladies that spot during pregnancy...I am thinking that I dont mind if any of this is happening to me as long as everything turns out to be ok. I can take anything, I dont care but pls pls God let the beanie grow :pray:

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Friday, August 26th 2011, 11:12am

Miss purple- just noticed your ticker says you have 209 days but it should say 196. Might be worth redoing it. Less days we have till baby in our arms the better lol

Elena- I am so sorry the spotting is continuing- how far gone are you? What is the next step?

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Friday, August 26th 2011, 11:30am

Hi Gemma, Im only 6weeks 1day today. The docs dont know where the spotting is coming from. They said that sac and yolk looked fine and consistent with my dates...Im going for another scan on 5th Sep unless of course I start bleeding red before then...I dont know what to think, I really wanna be positive but Im so scared... :tear:

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Friday, August 26th 2011, 12:24pm

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Friday, August 26th 2011, 12:27pm

It's over....no heart beat. Pregnancy sac and yolk sac still intact but no heart beat. Defiantly over....confused scared and so hurt.
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Friday, August 26th 2011, 12:30pm

OMG Kittenlove no way!!! Can it not be early? Or not in the right position to be heard?? What did they say? R u going back? OMG Im soo sorry, It might not be over pls, hang on...

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Friday, August 26th 2011, 12:34pm

It's over for sure. Was given a letter to go to EPU to get medical management but I don't want to go........I'm devastated.
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Friday, August 26th 2011, 12:40pm

Kittenlove dont give up yet it is not unheard of ,I am thinking of you ,what did they say next?
Elena I am so sorry this carry on like this ;(


to top up the bad news.....;(
As for me I also SPOTed today brown stretchy discharge so I am very worried but .....there is no much that can be done ....,I am 6w2d and just hope this was a fluke spotting , with my first unsucsessful pregnancy I never had a spotting so just keep thinking that the spotting maybe left over from the implantation?old blood but why in a jelly stretchy like discharge anyone?
I am not going to panic just yet and wont call the clinic just yet as I know what they will say and my scan is on tuesday what do you girls think?
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Friday, August 26th 2011, 12:40pm

I am absoloutely devastated for you hun. I wish I could say something that could ease the pain but I know there are no words apart from Im sorry. I hope you can find the strength to continue with what you need to do Kittenlove...I ll be here for you and I know the rest of the ladies will be too, whenever you need to talk. Im thinking of you and pray you are strong xxx

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Friday, August 26th 2011, 12:45pm

Hi Mim, to me this doesnt sound worrying, mine is also on a jelly strechy discharge as you describe but I also have a lot of pain. You are right for not panicking! Not long till Tuesday to put your mind at rest. Its nothing Im sure, I wouldnt worry if I didnt have the pain to go with the brown spotting. You n LO are fine Im sure! [zx127]

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Friday, August 26th 2011, 12:49pm

aah thank you Elena I am just so p...ed off why do things like this happen to people that have gone through hell and back to get pg , but life is sooooo unfair...where is your pain can you described it for me so I know what to look for , I have no pain , last week and the week before i did but the doctor said it was the ohss ,this week no pain just v.bloated.
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Friday, August 26th 2011, 1:00pm

Mim I know what you mean...I have strong period pain all around my tummy and back. It makes me wanna be sick...I do suffer from endometriosis and adenomyosis(internal endo) so the docs said this mght be the cause of the pain n spotting. I soooo much hope they are right. My friend told me that most pregnant ladies get period pain but mine is stronger because my periods are v painful. I soooo much hope she s right too!!!

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Friday, August 26th 2011, 1:03pm

thank you [zx127] , i have heard other pg ladies with endo saying this the pain in pg is stronger due to the endo ,so it may be very well what you have ,stay positive xfingers xfingers xfingers
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Friday, August 26th 2011, 1:05pm

Thank you too Mim xfingers

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Friday, August 26th 2011, 2:05pm

Kittenlove- I am so so sorry to read that. Please get in touch with the EPU in your own time but you will need their support.

Mim- Can you go for an early scan?

Elena- I hope it is endo pain.

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Friday, August 26th 2011, 2:14pm


:what: Kittenlove I don't know what to say. How awful. And surely you don't HAVE to go for medical management if this if definitely what they are saying - its up to you what happens next hun. I'm so so sorry [zx028] , not that these words will make any difference to how you must be feeling. :xxx:
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Friday, August 26th 2011, 2:17pm

Gemma... I've just tried to change it and going by my last period date (3rd June) It's now telling me I have 231 days to go!

Any other decent ticker sites (that actually work, lol) people know of?
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Friday, August 26th 2011, 7:42pm

Hi Everyone

Unfortunately I have also had a scare this afternoon. Went to the bathroom and to my horror I had pink/brown on my pantyliner. Came straight home and to bed. It seems to have stopped for now. Not sure what to think.

Why is this so hard?!

Am going to do hpt tomorrow.

mim/elena hope you are both ok.

Kittenlove - I am so very sorry. I can't imagine how upsetting this must be. Thinking of you.
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Friday, August 26th 2011, 9:58pm

Just typed out a massive post then pressed 'back a page' GRRR. In short:

To Mim... good on you for not panicking hun, stay positive.
To Devchick, I'm sorry you've had this scare, and I hope that it is ONLY a scare...I'm sure it will be - you stop in bed hun.
I'll stick here and drown you both with PMA : D

Thinking of you Kittenlove,

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Saturday, August 27th 2011, 10:56am

Hey Kittenlove how are you feeling today? Thinking of you xxx

How is everyone? Im still the same, getting used to the cramps and spotting :sadface:

Hugs and kisses to everyone x

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Saturday, August 27th 2011, 11:36am

Not sure I should be posting in first trimester anymore.......not good Hun I'm afraid.....
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Saturday, August 27th 2011, 12:23pm

mmm, im sorry Kittenlove... [zx127]
I understand, I hope you find the support you need.
Take care and try to stay strong x

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Saturday, August 27th 2011, 1:08pm

Mim how's things? I thought I would post because I have had some of what you are describing - obviously I can't be totally sure but I have had the same and my Consultant said all is well as long as it isn't bright red!
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Saturday, August 27th 2011, 6:16pm

Kittenlove,

Im so so sorry , i have no idea what say whay say except im thinking about you. can't believe its happened.

Take care of yourself

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Saturday, August 27th 2011, 6:22pm

Hey Ladies,

Such a frightening time these pregancies are causing us.

Hope everyone is ok doing.

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On monday after work i called my doctor to see if the could do anything for my sickness, to my delight i was given some anti sickness tablets.At first i didn't want to take them as i didn't want to take anythong that can harm lo but thought why give the to me if i can't so tuesday morning i took one they actually worked but the big down side was i knocked out for the rest of day and made me feel terrible. My poor son had to spend all day in bed with me just because i couldn't get up just had no energy. So thats the end of them not taken therm again. So now i going to thank my lucky stars that im pregnant and just get on with it.
We had out booking in app with midwife Thursday was so excited and glad thats all done just waiting for my 12 week scan date to come through and also we have to see the consultant with this pregancy too so lots of appointments and scans hopefully.

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Saturday, August 27th 2011, 7:44pm

Hi Kazzy Im sorry those tablets made you feel worse...better not to take them again hun x

Mim how are you doing?

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Saturday, August 27th 2011, 7:57pm

How are you today Elena [zx127]
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Saturday, August 27th 2011, 9:04pm

Hi MissPurple, Im the same, still cramping and light spotting. :sadface:

I know there is nothing I can do but wait for my next scan on the 5th.

Thank you for asking :cuddle

I hope you are ok xxx

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Sunday, August 28th 2011, 9:54am

Thanks Elena I'm good.. doing a lot of retail therapy lately jut to keep me busy and get me out of the house to pass the time. Plus, it's lovely weather so no excuse really. Saying that though it's clouding over now, grr!
Looking forward to my scan and it FINALLY seems to be nearer. (Thursday woohoo!)
Sounds like you're managing your well, that's good - and I do hope at your scan it shows everything is just fine and its just "one of those things" that some of us have to put up with :huh: .

Have a nice Sunday everyone, it'll probably rain later though, being Bank Holiday n' all ::P xx
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Sunday, August 28th 2011, 10:08am

Hi MissPurple, your scan date IS getting closer! Just a few days left! :happy:
Shopping therapy huh? Sounds really good to me! I see you're in Huddersfield, Im in Leeds so not far. At the mo skies are clear but I can see the dark clouds heading over my house! Typical huh?
I seem to feel a little better today, pains here and there but nowhere near as bas as this past week.Keeping my xfingers it stays this way :thumbsup:
Have fun, enjoy the rest of your weekend!
Hope all ladies are doing good xxxx

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Sunday, August 28th 2011, 3:56pm

Hi Girls hope you have a nice weekend,
Sorry I have been away and have not posted just been so busy catching up with my work as after I came out of hospital it was a mess ,
Elena this is better news I have everything crossed the spotting stops asap
Miss Purple not long now not long ;)
Kazzy it is so nice to have you back I wouldn’t take them if they have such effects but hopefully soon you will feel better I wish my ms is back but not
Hayley thank you for asking hun I have not updated my diary I think I am getting very panicked again ;)
My spotting well stretchy brownish thing was once of by the looks of it ,it didn’t come back ,but what I got now is yellowish (tmi sorry) stretchy stuff now and then ,anybody?
My breasts as from yesterday don’t really hurt I am 6w4d today and worried that no sore breast and no ms = mc , I am dreading my scan on Tuesday I want to live in the happy bubble that nothing can go wrong ,but I also really want to know is there a baby with a hb there ,and truly hope , I don’t know every doctor says it is unlikely another abnormal baby again but who knows? why are my symptoms improved ? I take a pg test every morning ,I know what you guys think but I do it is the only thing I got control over and my tests look the same they are not fainter just the same dark so I hope this means my hcg is ok . I got this terrible rush on my face /eczema like since the past 10 days , I am not sure what it is , as I have lupus but my rushes with lupus are not under my chin normally ,does anyone know anything? I am waiting for my rheumatologist to call me on Tuesday to talk about it ,otherwise I have spent the day sleeping and sleeping I have not lost the tiredness at all but it could be the progesterone pessaries that play trick and make me soo tired ….
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Sunday, August 28th 2011, 4:27pm

Hi Everyone

Mim - Glad to have you back. Hope your ohss is now under contol. Due to what happened to me on Friday I have read up tons over the weekend on early pregnancy bleeding. It looks like brown/pink isn't actually anything to get too worried about and is common. Especially for the time you and I are in as this is when we would be having a period. Like you I am rally worried about my scan but I have decided what will be will be. Just need to be patient for another 2 weeks!

Elena - glad the pains are feeling better. Think over the next few months there will be quite a few changes to our bodies! xfingers

MissPurple - good luck for Tuesday!!!

Kazzy - hope the ms is not too bad.

Sarahlou - I hope you are ok. Sorry to hear what a hard time you have been having!

I seem to be ok. My b00bies are killing! I guess that has to be a sign my hormones are ramping up. I don't have any ms but I am on steroids and these can keep sickness at bay. In case anyone thinks this is a good reason to be on them I'm afraid there is a long list of nasty side effects they give ;( But if they help me to keep this little one they are worth it!

Just a 4 day week, then on hols to Spain for a week then my scan. Hopefully a few days in the sunshine will help pass the time. I am finding this is dragging worse than the 2ww. I just desperately want to know if there is a heartbeat. xfingers
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Sunday, August 28th 2011, 4:36pm

Devchik i hope you are right but i am 6 w4d so long past cycle time and also loosing my breast soreness? Why are you on steroids ,i am on steroids for lupus.
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Sunday, August 28th 2011, 4:46pm

Hi Mim

Lots of immune issues I'm afraid. I am properly drugged up this cycle. Met the mw on Friday and gave her the long list: Clexane, calcium, high dose folic acid vit b6 & b12, high dose Utrogestan, intrallipid infusions, thyroxine, prednisoline.

But, it has to be said this is the first time I have ever managed to get a bfp. None of my issues cause any problems on a day to day basis. They just make it too easy for my body to reject an embryo.

If you are worried about spotting have a look online. Tons of people get spotting in early pregnancy. It seems as long as it isn't heavy and red and cramping it is fairly common and lots of ladies go on to have a successful pregnancy. I know how scary it is. I left work in tears on Friday thinking it was over and very short-lived. I am just taking it really easy this weekend and the bleeding does, so far, seem to have stopped.

Only a couple more days for you to wait now. Will be thinking of you.
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Sunday, August 28th 2011, 4:56pm

I hate clexane i am also on most of the same meds and some others,where do you inject clexane i find it v.painful,as for the steroids i got use to them.
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Sunday, August 28th 2011, 8:12pm

Mim- my boob soreness has always come and gone and disappeared altogether quite early on.

As for the cm think that is normal and the drugs seem to make it more noticeable.

roll on Tuesday hey.x

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Sunday, August 28th 2011, 8:33pm

Gemma that is exactly what i was hoping to hear thank you,i just wanted to know someone else further than me with this experience, thank u :cuddle
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Sunday, August 28th 2011, 8:37pm

Hi Mim

I inject Clexane on alternate sides of tummy each night. Make sure you inject in different areas as I have found my skin swells a bit a few days after each injection and then it makes it much more difficult to inject the needle. Make sense?

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Tuesday, August 30th 2011, 12:06pm

Hello everyone, hopes all is well and you are managing to stay positive and sane :winking: I know it is difficult.

Been off the radar for a while. Period cramping coming and going but no bleeding thank God. Breasts bigger! but sore, and waves of nausea during the day with bad indigestion, mostly at night oddly.

I am slowly going mad though waiting for a date for my first scan. I have recently moved and am inbetween GP's. My last one congratulated me gave me my due date and sent a letter booking me into my local hospital.

I now have to see the practice nurse at my new GP practice to register this Thursday, where I will get a note for the midwife who I cant ring until next Tuesday. I priced an early scan privately but it would cost me 320 smackers!! :faint: so needlesstosay I gave it a miss. LOL I guess I will just have to be patient and :pray: all will be alright.

Anyway must go and attempt to concentrate on work I haven't been the most productive employee recently. Thinking of you all Luv Mols [zx189]

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I am going to copy from my diary as i am soo tired
Hi Girls,
I am going to get straight to the point , I had a horrible 22 hours…………..
Last night at 5pm was just finishing a bridal order when I felt like I peed myself ,a gush ,I took off my pants fearing the worst and there I started gushing blood everywhere , I always thought when people say gushing blood they over exaggerated what’s happening ,but it wasn’t it was a Gushing blood, I screamed for my Dh and ran to the bathroom ,put lot of toilet paper and everything was just soaking with blood , I filled 3pads in less than an hour and to my horror I lost a huge piece of my lining ,when I held it (tmi sorry) it filled my hand ,this happened twice ,I kept saying ,but I am not cramping ,I am not sore what is going on , I knew I was miscarrying…….. I kept calm which is so weird ,the bathroom floor looked like we butchered someone at home it was something it will stay in my mind forever, I then told my Dh there is no point rushing to a and e as they will do nothing they can’t sew back the baby or anything ,just called the ivf doctor on call and told him what is going on , he then suggested if I don’t feel ill and don’t pass out etc. to go for the scan today , so I accepted the advice and accepted ,well tried to what is happening , I cannot believe after all that have been trough I have to go through this it is like someone from above is having fun with me ;(
Well I read on internet so much but for about an hour last night to see what people say ,I also came across subchorionic hematoma ,but of course I knew after losing this amount of blood and lining there is nothing ….
So today we went for the scan at 10am , they were on time for a change , I kept saying to my dh how it is my stupid lupus or insulin resistance or thyroid or pcos that is killed yet another baby,,,,,so we walked in I couldn’t wait even a second and told the sonographer that I had miscarried I told her are you going to confirm and she said ,she needs to make sure it is not partial mc……to our shock she said ,I see the baby ,,,,,,then seconds later she said it has heartbeat ….I lost it ,so did my dh ,we burst into tears and she panicked ,she asked if we wanted to be left alone , I said no carry on , she measured everything she said baby measures fine ,but my lining has gone thinner due to the loss also I have a subchorionic hematoma where the sac is and the other concern of hers is that baby’s heart rate was 96 bpm,she did say it is a bit slow ,then the doctor came he seemed to be more concerned about the hb ,but I read at 6w2d(as the scan dated it at that and not 6w6d like I thought) is normally between 90-110 ,,the doctor said he likes to see it around 120,so I don’t know what to think anymore….one minute I am miscarrying the next I see a baby there, I need people with any stories to share please ,I have been booked for the 5th September to see the EPU to see if baby will die or it will have better heart rate. My Dh keeps saying he is not worried about the hb he is worried about the hematoma ,I am totally shocked never did I think my life will go from one mess to the next ,I feel like handicap woman that has failed to do what I was supposed to do …I am happy to see it there and with hb but knowing that I need a miracle now….I have a question what was your baby hb at +-6w2d?
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Tuesday, August 30th 2011, 5:13pm

Oh Mim, im so sorry that youre going through this. I cant help with your questions im afraid but i wanted to say im thinking of you and praying for another miracle for you, you have been through so much. xxx

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Tuesday, August 30th 2011, 7:09pm

Hi Mim!
OMG what a day it 's been for you!!! I m sooo glad that the baby is fine! I can't help you with the H/B but I 've heard that they are slower to start with then speed up as they grow. God I bet you are tired...Sending you lots of [zx127]

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Tuesday, August 30th 2011, 7:51pm

OMG Mim how totally totally horrible. I too don't know the answers to your questions hun - I hope somebody can shed some light for you soon, but didn't want to read and not post how sorry I am that you've gone through all that! Great news that baby is A-OK. DO NOT feel like you are inferior in any way to providing your little one with the environment it needs. Whatever happens is out of your control and is certainly not your fault. Many [zx127] from me, will be thinking of you. Stay strong with your husband through this nasty time :-( . :cuddle
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Wednesday, August 31st 2011, 2:22pm

Hi ladies Id like to join you all.

We got our bfp on 14th aug and had our 7week scan today and saw a lovely heartbeat smile2

Mim I'm so sorry your having such a hard time of it and I :pray: everything works out alright


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Wednesday, August 31st 2011, 2:26pm

Mim have posted in your diary- thinking of you.

Welcome to the first trimester Shell.x

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Wednesday, August 31st 2011, 7:06pm

Hi ladies hope you're all OK, thinking of you Mim.

Big fat welcome to Shell :smile: - lovely news re: scan :thumbup:

AFM becoming evermore anxious/nervous/ mostly excited about my scan tomorrow. ^^ However it's also D-Day to tell the boss (all being well at scan, ofcourse) and to tell her i'll be back at work for 3 weeks after Maternity Leave - to commence my next lot of Mat Leave. The day after she's completed my reference for Uni to hopefully leave next year anyway. Oh the joys! She's a horrible woman, taking fiance as a barrier if she kicks off, haha. Joking aside, she can go swing.
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Wednesday, August 31st 2011, 7:42pm

Just want to tell you girls huge thank you for all the support,
shell welcome and congratulations on the scan
miss purple i got everything crossed for you
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elena how r u doing
Gemma thank you again for popping by appreciate it a lot
i am trying to lay down as much as possible blood is looking more brown red than red and a couple small clots came out but they look old,so i pray our lo makes it.
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Wednesday, August 31st 2011, 8:34pm

Thanks for the welcome

Miss P good luck with your scan tomorrow. Would love to be a fly on the wall in that convo with your boss :laugh: The fact she's horrible will make it easier for you though

Mim glad the bleeding is easing up a bit. Take it easy


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Wednesday, August 31st 2011, 8:52pm

Hi Ladies

Mim - what a terrible time you've had. I am so sorry!

Shell - welcome!

MissPurple - good luck tomorrow

Hope everyone is ok. I am really struggling today. Had ANOTHER bleed. Now it's been going on every 48 hours sine Friday and it is doing my head in. Just want to know what is going on - one way or the other.

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