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I can understand how worried you are and I suggest you try and keep yourself busy as the stress will not be doing you any good. Good luck for your scan and hope the time goes quicker for you x

You really have been through it hon. it's not surprising you are stressing. I had one mc and was also stressed especially as I had lots of bleeding. All I can tell you is that it will get easier as time goes on. Each scan will give you a little more reassurance.
It's because you want this so much that you are worrying. I worried too and look at me now!

statistically you are far more likely to have a good scan than not so keep up the pma if you can.

When is your scan?

Oh hun no wonder you can't relax. You have been through a hell of a lot, I think it's understandable you feel this way as all your past experiences have been so heartbreaking.

After my first loss I spoke to a very good friend that said this.

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A mc is one of the worst things to ever happen to a woman and of course you're thinking back to when it happened before. A really good tip I was told and will try this time(Cos it will work) is to try and remember all the good feelings you felt about being pg and almost give permission for this little baby to stay with you. Bit arty farty but it sounds pretty cool to me..if you really think about it you don't have any control from now as to the outcome, its more than likely going to work for you, just think of little ducklings trying to get out of the water..Sounds bizarre but if it doesn't happen immediately they just keep trying and trying and trying til they do..and they always do!

I tried it with my second and third pg's, I felt so much better for enjoying the time I had with our babies even when I lost our second LO. Don't get me wrong, I did have moments of sheer terror when I thought everything was going wrong again but on the whole I felt a lot better.

I'm not sure how you manage the scan thing, I think that is the one thing that you will always dread and everyone I know that has had bad scans always says the same.

I hope writing your feelings down has made you feel a little better.

Good luck with your scan.

xxx

Good luck girl.

After 3 miscarriges, I know exactly how you feel. But you know what, you are meant to have a baby and hopefully this little embryo is the one. Think of the others as they were not meant to be. Maybe a different time in your life or those particular embies were faulty.

Keep strong and have faith that yes there is a little baby growing in you. Try to keep busy and try to not stress as it just makes the situation worse.

After 8 scans, I still get major butterflies every time and always have a slight worry something will be wrong but that feeling gets easier and easer. Besides, it's much nicer and more enjoyable to take every step in your stride and just be chilled, happy and pregnant!

Best of luck.
xxx